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Let the Journey Continue...
Monday, August 16, 2005
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"The leadership instinct you are born with is the backbone.
You develop the funny bone and the wishbone that go with it."
~ Elaine Agather
 
 

 


  • The Six Qualities of a Leader

  • Action Steps for Today

  • Making a Difference - Kelly Richardson, Team 434

  • The Meaning of "lamented"

  • Opportunity Knocks by Jim Meurer

  • What do you want?

 

 

Class Announcements...


Help Your Teenager Change Their Life - Only a few seats left! Also, if you're planning on going to graduation, the location of this class has been changed!

The final Teen Awakening of the year is in 3 days, August 19-21, 2005 in Sacramento, CA. This means that you have another chance (barely) to get your favorite teen enrolled.

Imagine how your life could have been different if you'd had the tools and focus of Awakening when you were still a teenager. Then imagine how your teenager could benefit from these tools right now. Imagine how this gift would benefit them for the rest of their life.

Click here to read more about this wonderful gift for your teen's life, then contact us today by clicking here or calling the office at (775) 575-2298 to sign your teen up.

The new location for the class is: Sacramento Downtown Clarion, 700 Sixteenth Street, Sacramento, CA 95814. Phone Number (916) 444-8000.

EQ Class Added!

EQ: Communicating with Power gives you the secrets and tools used by all of the most successful communicators in the world. In addition, one of the most powerful processes in all our courses is contained in this class.

The next EQ happens September 22-24, 2005 in Northern California. Contact the office at (775) 575-2298 to get more information and to sign up. Click here to learn more.

Awakening Classes Are Filling Quickly!

If you've been planning to send a starfish through Leadership Awakening, please act now to make sure you get the dates you want. All West Coast Awakening classes are now held in Sacramento, California. To see the full updated schedule, including which classes are still open, click here.

 

Today's Message

The Six Qualities of a Leader

By Dr. Bruce Eichelberger

Vision, Purpose, Focus, Passion, Commitment and Teamwork these are the six qualities of a leader. Using these qualities, leaders see where they're going and have the energy and persistence to get there. Along the way, they create awesome teams to make their vision a reality.

How do you rate yourself in each of these six? For example, are you regularly spending time reviewing and refining your vision of the future? Those leaders who reach the top of their fields do this constantly.

What about purpose? When was the last time you took out your mission statement and read it aloud to yourself? If you did, were there parts of it that sounded stronger to you than others? Refining your mission statement to meet your growing understanding of your purpose is a great way to rekindle your passion about those things most important to you.

As for focus, you already know that without focus you can be easily distracted and diverted from your path. With focus, you can easily address, dismiss or ignore those parts of your life that are distractions so that you can give more energy to the important things. After all, nobody lying on their deathbed ever lamented (see today's Word Play) that they didn't watch enough TV in their life.

Passion is a tough one for some people. It sometimes seems difficult for us to keep our passion for life, our work and our family strong every day. The little things sometimes get in our way. All the more reason to keep reminding yourself about what matters most to you. By reinforcing what is most important, by remembering what you are grateful for in your life, your passion will always be closer and more readily expressed.

How about commitment? Once you are clear, focused and enthusiastic about everything that is important to you, how do you evaluate or reevaluate your commitments? If you periodically take a commitment inventory, you will easily see which commitments are more important and which ones you can de-emphasize.

For teamwork, ask yourself if you are happy with the quality of your relationships at home, at work and with friends. See if there are areas where you can make an effort to improve the important relationships with your team members in every area of life.

Working on improving yourself in the six qualities of leadership makes every other part of your life better. See today's action steps for a helpful tool to do just that.

 

Action Steps for Today

To track your progress in living the six attributes of a leader, we've prepared a downloadable document that you can use to help see how you're doing.

To download this Adobe Acrobat (.pdf) document, click here. You will need the free Adobe Reader to view and print this file. You can get this here: www.adobe.com

Once you have the document, print it out and use it regularly to see how you're doing. You will rate yourself on each of the six areas on a scale of 1-10, where 10 represents your very best effort. Use this tool on a regular basis to see how you're doing and to find ways to do better... after all, true leaders are always under construction.

 
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Making a Difference - Kelly Richardson, Team 434

Sitting in my chair at my own graduation from Awakening Team #434 and hearing Ms. Colvin talk about the upcoming Teen Awakening I knew instantly what I would do for my Homework Assignment: I would fill that class!! I knew that using my voice thru my advice column would be a perfect way to give back to my readers and help them be aware of something I believed could help many teens. I also spoke often and with passion to certain patients in my office (teens as well as adults) I felt would benefit from this experience. The best way I knew how was to share my journey and give back to others by sharing a piece of myself and encouraging them to step out of their box and trust me.

Writing the column was incredibly easy and it felt wonderful writing about something I felt so passionate about. I typically do not respond to any letters from readers as this sets up possible legal issues or bantering letters back and forth as well as having a boundary for my personal time. But I committed to answering every letter of interest I received about EmpowerU- regardless of what it had to say. I am sure this had a positive impact on the many readers who wrote as they saw me take the time and the interest in what they had to say. This mutual respect I showed them hopefully made people feel good about their questions and they saw me as a person who genuinely cared about the well-being of their child. It felt very rewarding to think of them not as just “e-mail names” but as people I wanted to connect with and wanted to give my time to before they made an important decision regarding the most important treasure in their life--- their child.

The full circle of my assignment came on Sunday, July 31 as I sat and watched 19 teenagers (and some pretty tired looking staff) share their experiences in the exact same chairs I had sat in a little over one month prior. The benefits I received were immeasurable because I believe the impact of what they received is immeasurable as well. The heartfelt words shared in the letters they wrote to their parents and the issues they so openly spoke of made every second of my experience worth it and my heart was filled with genuine joy to feel I was somehow responsible for a small part of the many gifts these teenagers had received that weekend.

What did I gain from giving of myself? More than I ever thought would happen!!! I gained a peace in seeing these teenagers reaching out to their parents for support or acknowledging the value their parents had in their lives. I gained confidence in myself as an advice columnist because I was not aware of how many loyal readers I had and how many of them placed value on what I what about. I gained joy in seeing 19 happy young faces walking away with important tools that will be a part of their everyday life as they get older—tools that will help them be successful or tools that will help them as they struggle. I gained insight into my own two patients worlds as they shared their EmpowerU experiences with me. Most importantly, I gained belief in myself that my voice has the power to help other people and that I can will myself to do anything by being passionate and focused!

Thank you for the assignment, for your gift of teaching people to explore their lives and for being a part of my journey that feels as if it has only just begun!
 


Word Play

To lament means to cry aloud, to express sorrow. Similar words include wail, weep, and mourn.

You can see it used in the sentence from today's message, "After all, nobody lying on their deathbed ever lamented that they didn't watch enough TV in their life."


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Opportunity Knocks by Jim Meurer

“No great man ever complains of want of opportunity”
      ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

How many times, if you really step back and look at it objectively, have you found yourself feeling stymied and frustrated when things don’t seem to be going as you had planned or hoped or designed. What is your mind-set at times such as this? The response that many of us too frequently have is one of anger, resentment, jealousy, self-pity, or any number of extraordinarily counterproductive reactions.

Philosophically, we can rationalize and understand that these types of responses will only move us further away from our goal or objective, yet we often appear to be almost helplessly locked into the default negative responses. This certainly does not mean we are somehow so inherently flawed that we are destined to repeat this pattern forever, but merely that we are fallible humans who need to work and to train ourselves to alter this outcome.

Every Awakening graduate learns how profoundly a simple word can effect an action, both positively and negatively. Our mind is incredibly powerful in the manner in which it can influence physical responses…how it tells the body to react. You may have heard the old adage that, when you are confronted with a “problem”, substitute the word “opportunity” in it’s place. Just this simple act, this small re-frame, will go a long way toward an improved outcome. By consciously choosing to step away from the default reactions and to look at the circumstances with a fresh perspective, you give yourself permission to seek out an opportunity that may have otherwise been masked behind powerless thoughts and words and deeds.

Consider Thomas Edison: in 1914 a fire swept through his factory, destroying everything. There was not nearly sufficient enough insurance to cover the damages. While walking through the ruins with his young son Charles, he commented to him “There is great value in disaster. All our mistakes have been burned up. Thank God we can start anew”.

Three weeks later, Edison unveiled the phonograph to the world.

Think about that!


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